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sing it out loud
So she said what's the problem, baby?.what's the problem, I don't know well maybe, I'm in love love. makes me wanna turn around and face it but I don't know nothin' 'bout love, woah~ |
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This blog was opened by Anne Ng to accomodate her mind's silly musings and her daily rantings.Do enjoy your stay here, and don't take what's not yours! tagboard
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Conclusions on a Life On Religion Everyone has the right to have a religion. or not to. And it's not my place to tell them which or whether to have one. I can believe what I want, and in who I want. If it's my choice, no one should say otherwise, and vice versa. If you can't handle people who are anti your religion, then that just means you can't stick by your own. And, do things the Catholic way. Don't go around quoting the Bible, or pushing Christianity or whatever your religion is to the world. Live by example, and if people see you and want to know more, great. If they don't, then at least you're trying. On Family If I were to say my family is perfect, I guess I'd be lying. If I were to say I've never screamed/got pissed/yelled at my family behind their backs, I guess I'd be lying. If I were to say that my family is a disaster, I guess I'd be lying. But I can say that they are probably the most suitable family. I can also say that they are human, with human emotions, with human shortcomings. And family may not be by my choice or my sister's (because I doubt if we really want to be sisters sometimes...), but it is founded upon a choice (my parent's getting married). On Friends I've learnt overtime a few things: When you're a friend, it means you're willing to give time to talking and sharing with the person. When you're a good friend, it means you're willing to give time and patience, with a dash of understanding and humour to whoever the person is. When you're a best friend, it means you're willing to give time, patience, understanding, humour, and most of all, more of yourself, than you're willing to take from the relationship. And that no matter which one you are, friendship is about taking and giving, and more on giving. Because no one else, except you and the person is going to give a (pardon the use of language) damn about the relationship, so you might as well keep up your side of the whole thing. And if you want to give it up, just make sure you hold on even tighter. On Life It's true enough that sometimes, you're low and feeling stupid and ornery and just waiting for the world to hit you down again. Those are the times we want to get over with quickly. It's true enough that sometimes, you're high and feeling smart and optimistic and just waiting for the world to give you more blessings. Those are the times we want to cling onto. But, time is still the same, one minute of hell is the same as a minute in paradise, they will be the same amount of time, whether we cling or not. So, take whatever comes at you, and make sure all the happy times are spent well. Oh yes, and when you feel like you're the saddest, sorriest person in the world, think about all the other people in time who've been in situations even more dire than your own, then remember that they got over it too. And thank your lucky stars that you're safe and happy and have the luxury of access to the Internet through which you're reading my blog :) On Love Love is like alcohol. Great for the taste, but most of the time, bad for you in the long run. Quoted loosely from Checkmate, the Naughts and Crosses Trilogy: "To think that you can only love one person in your whole life is silly. There are some people lucky enough to be able to spend the rest of their lives with the one person they've ever truly loved. But they are few and far between." So don't wallow in misery if you've lost someone or something you've loved. Because you can find it in yourself, over time, to love something or someone else again. |